Is xbox Live better than Playstation Network?

Xbox owners seem very convinced that it's better. You'd expect it to be MILES better seeing as it's developed by Microsoft, but it's not really. IMO it's just about the only thing the Xbox has over the PS3 but to be honest I now own a PS3 and the internet play is superb and FREE(which makes a humongous difference)! Plus there's the fact that you can actually access the internet on the Playstation, like you can on a PC. I have sent emails, googled stuff & even watched YouTube vids on there it's mint!